Are you ready for the second question ? :)
It’s a bit of a sad story, so If you wanna smile then don’t read it :)
A friend of mine was in relationship with a woman, and they stayed together for years, all was perfect, each day they were more happy than the day before, they played games, their families matched perfectly..he knew her mother really well and she knew his mother very well…they both got closer to God..all was great.
And just before they were going to get married..It was her birthday and he was waiting for her with a present as he was planning for a surprise, while he was waiting his mobile rang, it was her..a smile draws itself upon his face when he sees her name, he quickly answered but the smile faded away as a warm tear fell on his cheeks.. she had just told him that she did something very bad.
His heart was broken to pieces apart, he didn’t hear anything after she said those words, he couldn’t even talk to her, he didn’t even say a bad word at her..all his emotions have frozen cold and he just left.
He was from the type of guys you never know he is sad, because he is always smiling..But since he is my best friend :) I know him very well, and he till this day is going through really tough times. He tells me everyday before he sleeps that he just wishes that she didn’t make that mistake but sadly he remembers that she did it. And sometimes he says maybe she didn’t mean it, maybe it’s better if I just forgave her as she forgave me hundreds of times.
He never loved someone like he loved her, this relationship has left a hole in his heart and he made a promise on himself that he would never go into another relationship again.
He needs my advice, and because I’m anti marriage I told him to not to go into relationships again :D
So what do you think, If you were in his place, would you
- Forget what happened, and continue your life normally
- Don’t go into any relationships again
- Forgive her and return to her (although he told me that this is impossible)
If you like the “Questions” series tell me, so I increase it :)